When they think lads are their friends do they not realize that the lad is just trying to shag her? Last night this lad was texting my mrs sayin he felt upset about some sh!t or other. Can't get a girlfriend or some boll0cks and doesn't know where his life is going etc etc. So she rang him up and was trying make him feel better. Now is it just me being jealous or is this just bullsh!t? If the lad wanted talk to someone, how come he had phone my mrs up and not one of his male mates or his family? Maybe i'm being a bit of a dick but, being a bloke myself, I personally couldn't see myself wanting to waste my time texting/talking to a girl i didn't want anything to do with. I'd say i have female friends but in all honesty, i've prob shagged or tried to shag them in the past when i was single and just stay in touch cos see them about and frequent the same places. I wouldn't go drinking with just me and them though or phone them up just to catch up. I also don't understand how some guys' minds work. If i wanted to get with a girl I wouldn't be making up bullsh!t excuses like "i'm upset and need to talk" just to get some attention off her. And I wouldn't pretend to be her mate. I'd just be open about my intentions from the start. Is this just me being a prick or are am I making sense?