So, when I was young (not THAT long ago) my Mum, my Granny, in fact anyone, when impressed by acts of derring-do would say something along the lines of 'my goodness that boy / girl is full of spunk' and nobody flinched. Now it would infer a bukkake fest!! Similarly, if one had had a fantastic time, they might say, 'wow, what a really gay time I had at Butlin's'. No comment!! And of course, when you had been REALLY busy, cutting the grass, trimming the hedge (or bush, fnarr fnarr!!) etc, she would say 'you've been working like a nigger, have some ginger beer'. Why is it so different now?