I have twice attempted to post a thread tonight and have lost both to gremlins. I am at present sat in Rumrats sitting room and posting this thread to avoid an issue that I have been accused of. I have not used this identity as any kind of mask to veil my real identity. As this account is raised using an email address set up by Rumrats son for his dad and then used once by him. It was then refused by him as "its confusing having two accounts and I'm not closing my other" as spoken by Rumrat. I have answered all questions that have been asked without hesitation and reiterate in open forum I am not Rumrat, and I thank my stars over that at the present time although there have been past occasions that I envied the git his way of life. Rumrat At present things are a little bleak. Jesse I sent you a PM last week at Rats request, if you see this asking you to phone him. If you see this please try and give him a bell on Monday afternoon. He had his annual medical a week or so ago and the news was not good given the circumstances already in place. He never moans about tricks, but just goes further into himself, and spends a considerable mount of time on his own, this by choice I must add. He was disappointed recently when an old friend from way back visited and he said he invited >>>>>> and an old man arrived. He has been desperately trying to get his weight down to pre trauma but despite exercise and diet has not had the success he desires, although it is obvious he is loosing it. He was told at the last medical he is halfway to diabetes, and with a wound that turned to an abscess and restricts exercise by continuously opening he has slid into mega depression. He attends his wife and kids, and seems oblivious to all else. He has been attending council ling on a regular basis and tells me he is doing a Stirling but has not explained that to me. He has no interest in anything much and refuses to come on RR despite much coaxing. He has not even logged on for months so any unanswered mail is not down to ignorance but apathy to everything. I go home on Friday but only live a few miles down the road so will not abandon him entirely. As if, because anyone who meets him likes him he is so docile for a big chap and as honest as the day is long. Unless he is working a number for a specific reason. Crime avoidance usually:-D I will make sure updates on him come out from time to time for any interested. I read the last lot of best wishes that were sent in thread and he was quite emotional but I never said that. I do know that not being able to partake of his blessed Pussers annoys him, although I do not believe he is totally abstinent as much as he confesses to the contrary. Cheers for your time.