Don't ask, don't tell and go about your business. During the Vietnam war when people were drafted many homosexuals served. They did so with distinction and honor. I was an RA soldier, professional for you Brits, and like many other RA soldiers we never had problems with homosexuals. Now when our units have reunions many of the homosexual vets attend and they are just that. War veterans like any other. If you can't handle it, then get over it!