How long is too long???

Discussion in 'Social & Reunions' started by Fairycake, Feb 10, 2008.

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  1. Okay not sure where to post this but hopefully this is right!?!?

    I have been in a relationship with my RM for just under a year, he knows i love him but he hasn't said he loves me. he says you know i really like you..

    I love him to bits but how long do i stay in a relationship where my boyfriend doesn't love me?

    Any views or advice gratefully recieved what ever your views!!

    cheers me dear x
  2. If it's been 12 months and he hasn't said it yet then i think he only likes you , sorry Fairycake .
  3. Why does he have to say it ?
    Don't you KNOW if he loves you or not after 12 months?

    Some people just don't like saying the "L" word.
    If, after a year, you are harping on about him saying this one word, then maybe its time HE moved on!

  4. Because she's a woman Lamri she needs to hear it , BECAUSE SHE'S A WOMAN . they are programmed that way
  5. Lol, there's a course I haven't done mate! Illogical logic for beginners!
  6. sgtpepperband

    sgtpepperband War Hero Moderator Book Reviewer

    He's a RM? 'Nuff said... only room for one person to love in a Royal's life - HIMSELF!! :wink:
  7. Bootnecks are hardwired in training to resist interrogation of this nature, ask yourself the following questions.
    1) Does your Boyfriend(BF) turn up to yours,
    a) totally sober.
    b)before the pubs have shut
    c)without the rest of his section in tow looking for something to eat/somewhere to get their heads down.
    2)Does your BF hold your hand in public.
    3)Has he taken you out for a meal, Maccas/Burger King etc don't count.
    4)Did he buy you a hoofin' girt card and or flowers for your birthday.
    5)Does he ensure that you are sexually satisfied 'arriving' himself.
    If the answer to any of these questions is yes, then it is safe to say that he holds you in some affection.
    Give it time and in another ten years or so he might mumble "I really like you." That's about as good as it gets.
  8. Poor lass, sounded like she was dead serious aswel

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