having a girlfriend while in the navy

Polto

War Hero
boxy said:
I am joining the royal navey in less than 3 weeks and i was wondering if anyone has a partner / husband /wife in the navy, and how you can cope with it.

I ask this because im with my girlfriend at the moment and am wondering what the chances of success is that she will still be with me when i leave.

she is 19 and im 20 and have been together for almost 4 years, she has said she is willing to give it a try and i do know that it will be hard for her.

do you get to see them alot if so for how long at a time etc and any information would help alot :)
The first thing you need to do is get a grip. Of life that is....then you need to sit down with her and have a long chat about it all. Remember to have a chat with yourself as well.
 
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guestm

Guest
boxy said:
i can tell that she is not going to look for other blokes, because we have both had chances to go with others and havent also she is a massive clinger and will proably be counting down the hours of when ill be back....infact she is a bit crazy about it somtimes.

....hmm i think i have just answered my own question, answer is that ill have to wait and see and if she does want to stay with me then im going to have to take myself ff facebook.

thanks for the advice :D
If she has given you that impression then she's definitely in receipt of the good news from the bedroom boatrope of others. She is going to leave you for the same bloke she's been fucking for the last 6 months and laugh at you whilst she gets sprayed with a veil of salty manfat.

You on the other hand will now have to rely on whores for the rest of your days, as you are way down the wren pecking order, being:

a) A sprog.
b) A bit of a mong.
 

NZ_Bootneck

War Hero
What a year the Instructors at Raleigh are in for.
First the underprepared mong, despite years of time and advice, Chico, next comes the serial toys out of pram thrower Tim/Zoidberg and then this sad attention whore Boxy.
What ever they get paid it ain't enough.
 

boxy

Lantern Swinger
NZ_Bootneck said:
What a year the Instructors at Raleigh are in for.
First the underprepared mong, despite years of time and advice, Chico, next comes the serial toys out of pram thrower Tim/Zoidberg and then this sad attention whore Boxy.
What ever they get paid it ain't enough.
my good man i am in no way looking for attention im am seeking advice on a subject that has been on my mind and that i could find no answer for, so i asked.....simple, if i wanted attention then i would not have said be as direct as possible because if your an attention whore you would require or seek good attention and i did not, i wanted a strate answer :wink:
 

Merlin28

War Hero
If she can't deal with 9 weeks how will she cope with 9 months? Cut and run your still 20 plenty of shagging to be getting on with. Top tip the girls in your age range are very naive and easily fooled enjoy it while it lasts. It's much harder to con a girl into bed after 23 they have heard it all before.
 

Spaceman99

Badgeman
Your 20?Your going to change in the navy to the point where you go home on the weekends and your going to talk to her and think....christ do i have to go shopping with her..do we have to go to chasers with her mates again etc!
 

theymademedoit

Lantern Swinger
Spaceman99 said:
Your 20?Your going to change in the navy to the point where you go home on the weekends and your going to talk to her and think....christ do i have to go shopping with her..do we have to go to chasers with her mates again etc!
Is that the voice of years of Naval experience? Aren't you on a two year waiting list shippers? My missus stuck with me when I joined the navy and whilst she isn't a massive fan of me being away we stayed together and we are getting married next year. If she's the one she'll wait if not fcuk her off she isn't worth it.

Were you under the impression that all matelots were single by default due to all the Rum, Bum and Baccy? (Minus the Rum and Baccy).
 

2_deck_dash

War Hero
Spaceman99 said:
Your 20?Your going to change in the navy to the point where you go home on the weekends and your going to talk to her and think....christ do i have to go shopping with her..do we have to go to chasers with her mates again etc!
The lad joined up 8 months ago you bellend. I'm pretty sure he doesn't require relationship advice any more.
 
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guestm

Guest
2_deck_dash said:
Spaceman99 said:
Your 20?Your going to change in the navy to the point where you go home on the weekends and your going to talk to her and think....christ do i have to go shopping with her..do we have to go to chasers with her mates again etc!
The lad joined up 8 months ago you bellend. I'm pretty sure he doesn't require relationship advice any more.
There seems to be a trend of thread re-animation of late. All of them shit ones too.

Besides, he's probably dead now anyway, having fed himself a lethal dose of carbon monoxide from the exhaust of his Corsa. This being due to the witnessing of his honking slag swallowing the ebony peppermill of Jamal upon being chopped from basic for being a fuckwit.
 

2_deck_dash

War Hero
Montigny-La-Palisse said:
2_deck_dash said:
Spaceman99 said:
Your 20?Your going to change in the navy to the point where you go home on the weekends and your going to talk to her and think....christ do i have to go shopping with her..do we have to go to chasers with her mates again etc!
The lad joined up 8 months ago you bellend. I'm pretty sure he doesn't require relationship advice any more.
There seems to be a trend of thread re-animation of late. All of them shit ones too.

Besides, he's probably dead now anyway, having fed himself a lethal dose of carbon monoxide from the exhaust of his Corsa. This being due to the witnessing of his honking slag swallowing the ebony peppermill of Jamal upon being chopped from basic for being a fuckwit.
Fair one. Why can't sprogs bump decent threads, like the whoring thread or James Bond's dad?

Mmmm whoring.
 

Spaceman99

Badgeman
Are you trying to say a 20 year old won't change in the navy????He's prob already dumped her by now for being so moody and ambivalent about the relationship anyway!
 

K640

War Hero
Spaceman99 said:
Are you trying to say a 20 year old won't change in the navy????He's prob already dumped her by now for being so moody and ambivalent about the relationship anyway!
What would you know about relationships anyway you serial masturbater? Or the RN? Or other people? Besides this website have you ever actully had contact with another human being since your mother topped herself when she realised what a poo stained little vagina you are?

Edited for language.

Oops missed one.
 
Thanks for your as ever eloquently put point of view K640, we all know swear words are used but please refrain from spelling them correctly.

Regards

SM

:)
 

K640

War Hero
Apologies SM. Language has been modified to something more appropriate for this forum. Thought we were in Lils for some reason :oops:
 

boxy

Lantern Swinger
Spaceman99 said:
Are you trying to say a 20 year old won't change in the navy????He's prob already dumped her by now for being so moody and ambivalent about the relationship anyway!
well i guess you are still full of crap space cadet, im still with the lady in question and i have got my first ship which i will be joining in march sometime (not yet got my ships plan) i think im away for 8 months is what the killick said to me, so she will eather stand by me for almost a year or wont.........Place your bets now :D
 
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