Tiddly, I know where your coming from but as he was married before coming out (and being slightly mental in a brilliant way) there's always going to be someone. I was watching an old TOTP the other day and the lunatic was dressed as a yokel, he went up to a giggly young girl and in his best yokel accent said "Noice udders". Apart from not getting away with that these days, in the present feeding frenzy, jokes like that will be taken out of all context IMHO.
It's a pity we don't use the lie detector in the UK. I recon there would be a sudden halt to all this outing.
I play the Devils advocate in all this as having worked in Trauma clinics for quite a time and seen suppressed traumatic behaviour patterns and how it manifests, i cannot understand how so many apparently hid so much for so long.
Sodium Pentothal syrup all round, that'll throw a few liars a rope to hang themselves.