Disgrace who a young girl goes to her grandmother and tells her she's going on her first date. Her grandmother says, "now, this boy is going to try to touch your breasts but don't let. Then he's going to try put his hands between your legs, its gonna feel good but don't let him. Then, he will try to get on you and have his way with you, it will also feel good but stop him, because it will disgrace our whole family". The girl comes home after her date and her Grandmother asks how it went. The girl replied " It went good, but when he tried to get on top of me, I flipped him over and disgraced his whole family.