Your not wrong Snapdragon. It's like all this crap the RAF are spending money on right now, about recruiting more Gays and Lesbians into the ranks. Why? If they wanted to join, they'd join, they dont need a special recruiting drive aimed just at them to get them to come on board.
All that will happen, is the same as always happens; good people will join (be it any one of the three services) and regardless of sexual preference (who gives a toss about that anyways? If my oppo's bent, it just means I have more chance with the 'ladies' at grab-a-granny night. Good luck to him) they will bugger off when they see how shit things are in the forces, with less good runs, promotion freezes, crap duty rosters, stone age equipment etc etc being the norm today.
Spend the money improving things for the servicemen and women of this country, and not on daft 'drives', and then maybe all the good folk will stop PVRing at a rate of knots, be they straight, gay, whatever.