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**wet_blobby** · 04-07-12, 10:31

Let's not have a bitch fight.

You dont get a palace and rent free accom just yet princess, there's a bit of a slog to go yet.

**stewkatt** · 04-07-12, 10:34

what is with you people on here- you have all got such an attitude problem. it's a forum for people looking for advice not abuse. grow up.

**WreckerL** · 04-07-12, 10:36

Calm down Stewkatt, those nasty people are pongo's and booties, we're not all bad. Any phots perchance?

**stewkatt** · 04-07-12, 10:39

well not as yet- I might just- so those who think my fiancé would up and leave might think again. such a joke. I work my backside off and am getting left behind so my fiancé can have his dream job and no one bothers to give us the info wee need so we come to this site to get some help and we just get abuse? eh?

**Ninja_Stoker** · 04-07-12, 10:42

Originally Posted by stewkatt

hi - well as we speak he is at prnc and I have only got the jist but my job Is only 4 days a week and he will be dropping around £400 a month and money is tight as it is?
does he got nothing towards his living back home - for instance if things didn't work out if he lived alone he would have had to give up his flat etc ??

Pay & allowances are quite a complex issue and depend on factors such as marital status, dependant children, private rental/mortgaged accommodation, distance from base port etc., so it's really a good idea to arrange a visit to the AFCO together after PRNC, to make sure all angles are covered & hopefully to put your mind at rest.

**Drakey** · 04-07-12, 10:43

What type of an organisation do you think he is joining. Why would the navy subsidise his rent back home. He will have a roof over his head and three square meals a day. If he is taking a substantial drop in salary he needs to work out if he can afford to do so.

**stewkatt** · 04-07-12, 10:45

hi, it won't affect him- it's me that will be affected and no one seems to think the other half deserve to know anything. it's all fine for those going off getting training getting their meals and accommodation but what about those who are left behind keeping the home running whilst they are away - I think this is overlooked majorly

**stewkatt** · 04-07-12, 10:47

thanks- at least we have some mature people in here.

**stewkatt** · 04-07-12, 10:48

if you have nothing useful to say don't say anything atall

**stewkatt** · 04-07-12, 10:51

right ok- so we have established we can use Facebook on here. I only came on for some advice - not to be ambushed and not be spoken to like dirt- this is supposed to be the military- you no respect for anyone.